Eleven months ago, I left for Buenos Aires, Argentina only to now find myself in Cartagena, Colombia. After this most fluid, diverse, and change-filled year of my life, this “travel blog” shall end with one final post. Overall I feel good and it feels really nice to officially announce that I have finally been robbed of this monkey off my back. For years I have felt this figurative monkey, my intensely increasing desire to return to South America, to travel, to grow, etc. After so many unique experiences this year, perhaps it is not surprising yet fitting that two specific events did indeed involve me being robbed as well as actually having a real monkey on my back.
Days had passed since my parents met my brother and I in the highly unlikely meeting spot of Quito, Ecuador. Seeing my mother in that old, stuffy, exhaust filled bus, sharing her seat with an Andean woman and her two small children was simply something I never thought I would see in my entire life. We were on our way to Puyo, Ecuador, the Amazonian town where we would arrange our much anticipated jungle tour. After meeting our selected tour operator, and soon agreeing on stressed specifics such as having an English-speaking guide, spaghetti dinner, and fishing equipment (not surprisingly, none of which ended up happening) we were all set for our latest Lee family adventure.
With our very young non-English speaking guide, we began our tour which ended up being simply fantastic, complete with muddy jungle trails, wading through rivers, swimming to hidden waterfalls, a thin mattress inside a mosquito net, and a night time sighting of a tarantula and what looked like her 1000 babies. The next day, we arrived to the reserve Los Monos Selva y Vida, greeted by many playful monkeys and a caretaker whom apparently has had the issue of many monkeys on his back for many years now. Having these mostly young and adorable monkeys jumping and swinging on your neck, shoulders, arms, legs, and exploring your pockets and backpack was certainly an experience not to be forgotten especially when we learned that this free range reserve served as a refuge for homeless monkeys of murdered mothers (where their meat is an expensive delicacy).
Weeks later, my brother and I arrived to the Colombian coast and the city of Cartagena. After a fresh and healthy withdrawal from the ATM one morning, we set off for Cartagena’s old town, to explore the truly beautiful part of the city, while allotting some much anticipated late afternoon beach time. Perhaps I was cocky, too comfortable, lazy, unlucky, or just plain stupid. Maybe the guarding of our bag like a mother with her newborn was a sign to the extra-quick thieves of this historic Caribbean town? All it took was a quick introduction of a new friend’s wife and baby and it was gone. The bag that sat on my lap for most of the hour we were there had vanished. We didn’t see it and we were not harmed, but gone was our cash, only debit card, camera, ipod, sunscreen, and two very nice Cuban cigars. What followed next is certainly now a strong memory including my rant on the beach, my brother’s face in his hands, and that long, stinging walk back to our hostel (having no money for a bus or taxi). As with everything, we soon began to get over the thoughts of our lost cash, photos, or treasured MP3s. Thanks to a next day cash advance on that otherwise forgotten credit card tucked deep in my pack in the middle of a hiking boot, we were ultimately just fine and things were back on schedule.
Maybe it was just fine, or even good that it happened for it wasn’t long after that I again realized what was truly important and how cash, electronic devices, or those finely rolled cigars have nothing to do with it. Through this and other experiences this year, I for the first time in my life genuinely realize that you don’t need money or things to be happy. You can be just as happy with less.
Two things this past year I have truly appreciated: Sharing and Affection. When I had, I gave, and enjoyed sharing something with someone. When I had none, I accepted, and again enjoyed sharing something with someone else. From all this frequent giving and and probably more receiving, I gained so much more than what appeared on the surface: experiences. What a number of truly lovely, shared experiences. I’ve also had the pleasure of giving and receiving numerous hugs, kisses, pats on the back, etc. from friends, students, bosses, acquaintances, and from many more. How nice to be acknowledged and to express positive feelings for someone through touch. How lucky I am to have spent time in a more affectionate culture.
Now following this past year and its countless events, memories, experiences, and characters from all walks of life, this blog comes to an end. Tonight I embark on a long overnight flight back to Buenos Aires, although this time not to see some-thing, some-place, or for any other reason than to see a very special some-one. So begins the next chapter in my life.
Thanks to all who have read, commented, and to all the special people who have supported me during this past year of what has been a real and true adventure.
